In the glitzy world of Hollywood, where relationships often seem as fleeting as fashion trends, Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick stand out as the epitome of a lasting A-list couple. Their love story, which spans over three decades, is a testament to genuine connection, mutual respect, and unwavering support. From their serendipitous first meeting to their enduring marriage, here’s a look at the remarkable journey of Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick.
A Chance Meeting and Instant Connection
Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick’s paths first crossed in a rather unexpected way. While getting lunch between performances of his off-Broadway play “Getting Out,” Bacon was approached by a young fan and her older brother. That young fan turned out to be twelve-year-old Sedgwick. Although Bacon doesn’t remember this interaction, it marked the first time he met his future wife.
Their formal meeting, however, came years later on the set of PBS’s “Lemon Sky” in 1988. Bacon, charmed by Sedgwick, organized group dinners for the entire cast, hoping she would join. When she didn’t, he recommended she get a massage at his hotel, strategically timing his workout to coincide with the end of her massage. This persistence paid off, and their connection was immediate and profound.
A Swift and Sure Romance
Their relationship quickly blossomed. Despite being in her early 20s and feeling overwhelmed, Sedgwick felt an urgency to marry Bacon. She described this feeling to Vulture in 2019, saying, “He was just the one, you know? He was just the soul mate, he was just the one.” This certainty led to a whirlwind romance, with Bacon proposing on Christmas Eve of 1988. Despite a hiccup with the engagement ring, which Sedgwick confessed she didn’t like, their bond only grew stronger.
The couple married on September 4, 1988, in a beautiful ceremony where Bacon wore a checkered suit and Sedgwick donned a high-necked lace gown. Their love story was just beginning, and it quickly expanded to include their two children, Travis and Sosie.
Building a Family and Career Together
The Bacons’ family life began on an impulsive note during their honeymoon when they decided not to use birth control. Sedgwick soon became pregnant, and their son, Travis, was born on June 23, 1989. Their daughter, Sosie Ruth, followed in March 1992.
Throughout their careers, Bacon and Sedgwick found ways to work together. They starred in several films, including “Pyrates,” “Cavedweller,” and “The Woodsman.” In “The Woodsman,” Bacon played a complex role as a child molester trying to reform, while Sedgwick played his understanding girlfriend. This film was a significant moment in their careers, showcasing their ability to tackle challenging roles together.
Facing Adversity and Growing Stronger
Like any long-term relationship, Bacon and Sedgwick faced their share of challenges. One of the most significant was their financial loss in Bernie Madoff’s Ponzi scheme. The couple lost most of their savings, a blow that would have devastated many. However, they focused on what they had — their family, health, and ability to work. Sedgwick shared that they did a “quick body scan to get some perspective,” realizing they could make the money back and that others had it much worse.
Their resilience and ability to support each other through tough times are hallmarks of their relationship. They also maintained a sense of humor and joy, which Sedgwick highlighted in a Redbook interview, saying she still finds Bacon “so hot” and that he makes her heart flutter.
Celebrating Milestones and Looking Ahead
Bacon and Sedgwick have celebrated many milestones together, both personally and professionally. Their daughter, Sosie, followed them into acting, and they couldn’t be prouder. The couple also marked their 35th wedding anniversary with heartfelt posts on Instagram, reminiscing about their journey and expressing their deep love for each other.
In recent years, they have continued to work together, with projects like “Loverboy,” where Bacon directed and Sedgwick starred. They are set to co-star again in the upcoming film “Connescence,” their first on-screen collaboration in 20 years.
The Secret to Their Lasting Love
When asked about the secret to their long-lasting marriage, Sedgwick humorously advised against taking marriage advice from celebrities. However, she shared a valuable lesson: to feel whole within oneself before letting someone love you as needed. Bacon added that uninterrupted, one-on-one time is crucial, emphasizing the importance of simple, shared moments.
Their story is one of love, resilience, and mutual admiration. As they continue to navigate life and career together, Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick remain a beacon of enduring love in Hollywood.
